After so long finally projects have been cleared. Now left exams! sian...nvm. Chance upon a particular topic while reading the newspaper and is rather interesting thus decided to post it up. Guys can learn from this! If you try to find reasons of why she dont like u or like why she ignore u, below these info could be of help!

Factor (1)The Zone
When a girl first time meet a guy, she will categories him into these 5 areas.

From bottom to top: Creepy Guy, Normal Guy, The Friend, The Potential, The Lover

Creepy Guy : Want to get as far away as possible from him!

Normal Guy : Neutral feelings about him

The Friend : Not romantically attracted but enjoy hanging out with him

The Potential : Romantically attracted and would seriously consider settling down with him. If she is smart about it, she will withhold physical intimacy from him as long as possible.

The Lover : WANTS this guy, NOW! Because attraction is not a choice, she cant help feeling these tense emotions for him but she can choose how to act on her feelings.

Moving down the scale is easy and fast but going up is difficult and slow. Example, once a guy get into the Friend Zone, it is hard for him to move up to The Lover category. The lesson to take away from this that is if you want to stay out of The Friend Zone, aim to come across as The Potential or as The Lover as early as possible, even within the first few minutes of interaction.

Guys can do this through words, body language, eye contact and tonality.

Factor (2)Time
The longer a guy spends in a category, the more deeply entrenched in it he will be and the harder it will be to dig himself out. Once a guy has been in the Friend Zone for over 20hrs of interaction time, his chances fo getting out of it shrink exponentially. He must take more drastic measures. Best way is to minimise social contact with her for a minimum of 1 month up to a period that is half as long as the time they have been friends.

During this time, he should develop his attraction skills, raise his social & emotional intelligence, expand his social circle, improve himself PHYSICALLY and in general, make himself a much more attractive person and learn how to convey that attractiveness effectively. When he re-enters her life, she will be forced to confront a brand new guy - a more powerful attractive man, a man she cannot dismissively drop into The Friend Zone.

Dont worry that she will meet a new boyfriend during your absence. Your current presence as "just a friend" wont deter her from dating guys she likes romantically anyway. There are also many other ways like the Hollywood fairy tale style of 2 friends becoming lovers over time but this "Absence Method" is by far the most effective route.

Adapted from The New Paper Sunday
More info can be found at www.powerofbeingasian.com

Good luck!